Stop asking others for their zodiac sign and ask for their attachment style instead

Astrology: it can tell you a lot about a person, like how they handle trust, intimacy and emotions. But when you have to take a person’s sun, moon and rising signs as well as the current position of the planets into consideration, it’s tricky to get the full picture. You know what else can tell you all those things without needing to know whether or not Mercury is in Retrograde? Attachment styles!

Attachment styles are formed based on how a person and their primary caregiver interact in the earliest stages of their childhood. Whether their caregiver is attentive, negligent or inconsistent will permanently affect how a person copes with their emotions and relationships throughout their adult life. They say a lot about what kind of partner a person will be in a relationship.

Here’s a rundown of the attachment styles: People with secure attachment styles are prone to intimacy and they perceive others as prone to intimacy as well. They seek and expect trust in relationships. Even after a breakup, they’re likely to focus on the good times in their relationships. This allows them to be open to new relationships in the near future.

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Unpaid internships are classist, prevents social mobility

It seems like a majority of employers require some sort of internship experience before hiring someone for an entry-level position. Never mind the countless course credits students must complete to obtain their degree. If an applicant doesn’t have a hearty resume, they’ll have a harder time getting a job after graduation. While the idea of hiring someone with field experience is favorable, it overlooks those that don’t have the financial privilege of having an unpaid internship.

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Trauma porn is exploitative of individuals involved; desensitizes consumers

Social media has become an outlet for many people to raise awareness for instances of oppression and adversity that otherwise might’ve gone unnoticed. While some posts contain information and content that encourage consumers to feel empathetic and change their mindsets, other posts divulge too much information for the sake of the shocking effect it’ll have. This is known as trauma porn, or “the perverse fascination with other people’s misfortune,” according to Incite Journal.

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Hobby-thrifting is selfish; diminishes resources meant for low-income communities

In a world filled with fast fashion and an abundance of mass-produced items, thrift stores play a huge role in keeping issues like sweatshops and environmental concerns under control. At stores such as The Salvation Army and Goodwill, people can purchase a large selection of second-hand items including clothing and furniture. While society has begun to embrace thrift shopping over the past decade as a way to combat fast fashion and save a pretty penny, its growing popularity with the middle and upper class can actually have harmful ramifications.

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Performative activism threatens social justice as it becomes increasingly popular amongst politicians, social media

Following the death of George Floyd, yet another innocent black man killed by a police officer, many Americans found themselves outraged that police brutality and racism are still prominent in 2020.

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Geneseo enrollment plummets amidst the rise of Zoom University

On March 13 Geneseo students packed their bags and left campus indefinitely two months before the official end of the semester. These students seemed to silently come to a consensus about not returning to campus after spring break. Instead, they’ve decided to enroll in online classes at Zoom University so they could get their degree from the comfort of their own homes.

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Teachers should decrease workload for students; more time is needed to maintain healthy lifestyle during pandemic

Amid the COVID-19 pandemic, everyone is experiencing stressful situations they’ve never encountered before. Our current lives are full of uncertainty about when social distancing will no longer be necessary and when businesses and organizations will reopen and be able to operate as usual. News outlets are flooded with panic-inducing updates and speculations, so it’s easy to feel like our lives may never go back to normal.

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Individuals should only purchase medical items out of necessity, follow CDC steps

In light of the global COVID-19 outbreak, many people have been stocking up on hand sanitizer, surgical masks, hospital-grade cleaning products and other medical supplies. While accumulating such items may seem beneficial to society, it has led to a shortage in medical supplies for online companies, traditional retail stores and even hospitals. That means that many individuals in dire need of these supplies, such as those with immunodeficiencies, may not have access to them.v

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Legalization of sex work in U.S. would ensure safety within industry, surrounding community

Being on a college campus, it’s not uncommon to overhear students express their desire to drop out and become a sex worker. As crazy as that may sound, I can’t deny that I’ve considered it myself a handful of times when my coursework builds up. What stops me, aside from my poor body-image, is the possibility of getting arrested simply for reaping the benefits of my own body.

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Unnecessary killing of bugs must cease; their lives are valuable to our eco-system

Bugs: just the word itself could make your skin crawl. The bothersome pests can be found in our homes, by our food and virtually anywhere outdoors. What better way to spend one’s summer than to make a game out of murdering bugs?

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Billie Eilish earns celebrity status through her creativity, non-conformity

Although many people rag on singer Billie Eilish and claim she hasn’t earned her high levels of prestige and fame, Eilish has proven countless times that she’s deserving of her popularity and success. Eighteen-year-old Eilish warrants admiration not only for her award-winning music, but also for her unique fashion sense, young age and lack of scandals.

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Portrayal of homosexual romance on TV is toxic, flawed

Upon first glance, one might find it progressive that a TV show features a homosexual couple. These programs, however, are often inaccurate and unhealthy representations of such couples. While shows that are centered around inclusivity such as “The Fosters” are more likely to do the LGBTQ+ community justice, other shows that attempt to include homosexual relationships as a secondary storyline might resort to stereotyping, which gives viewers the wrong idea of what an acceptable relationship might look like. 

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People should enter self-partnerships to learn independence and self-love

As we enter a new decade and progress into adulthood, the pressure to find a life partner becomes more prominent. Society makes us believe we must be in a relationship to live a happy, fulfilled life. We struggle to accept, however, the fact that there are multiple lifestyle options and they don’t all require being codependent.  

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Hunters should be respectful and refrain from posting gruesome pictures of game

Attending Geneseo after growing up on Long Island has taught me many differences between suburban and rural lifestyles. I found one of the more striking differences to be how common hunting is for people who live in rural areas. Many of my peers hunt for food as well as for sport, and they often begin doing so at a very young age. 

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Highlights of the 2010s: Artists

Billie Eilish.

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Instagram’s ban of face-altering filters may improve its users’ self-image

We all love to play around with Instagram and Snapchat’s augmented reality filters that embellish our faces with dog ears, star-shaped freckles or sunglasses, to name a few. But when these AR filters target the physical structure of our faces, they can negatively affect how we perceive ourselves without the filter. 

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Ranking celebrities on physical appearance is unethical, depletes one’s self-image

We’ve all heard the term “beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” Many of us try to live a life free from comparisons and judgments of each other’s appearances. However, it is difficult to keep this mentality when social media ranks people, especially women, based on how they look. Ranking celebrities on superficial scales has been around for a long time, taking place in magazine publications such as “Hot or Not” lists and People Magazine’s “Sexiest Man Alive.” 

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Adults in the media attack teen activist’s character, ignore global crisis at hand

On Monday Sept. 23, political commentator Michael Knowles verbally attacked 16-year-old climate activist Greta Thunberg in an interview with Fox News. On the topic of the climate change movement, Knowles said, “If it were about science, it would be led by scientists rather than by politicians and a mentally ill Swedish child who is being exploited by her parents and by the international left,” according to USA Today. 

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Assistance animal laws fail to specify requirements, put people with disabilities at risk for discrimination

Mental health has become less of a taboo topic, allowing people to reach out and get the help they need. Among the many resources for mental health are emotional support animals, which have become more popular, but laws pertaining to their protection are unclear.

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Chick-fil-A’s discriminatory values do not belong on college campuses despite student petition

A Geneseo student created a petition to replace Books and Bytes with a Chick-fil-A on April 10. As of Tuesday April 16, the petition received 42 signatures. 

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